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Inventing Yourself Through Metaphoric Stories

Dreaming Of Boats by Bob and Donna Sellers

Using art to shift your focus and create stories: Allow your eyes to softly focus on Dreaming Of Boats as you begin your journey. Imagine you are entering the art and allow the boats to take you to a creative space, letting go of your everyday self. Continue focusing on the art for awhile and observe what comes up.

What influenced me to become a visual artist?   By Bob Sellers

During my career as a psychotherapist, my most meaningful work from which I learned the most about process and about myself, was as Director of Metaphoric Psychodrama that I did for years with Counselor Interns. I discovered that to understand what was missing in a person’s life, I had to get into a zone with a particular type of focus, where no effort was required.

Group members would come in to do something entirely different without any preplanning. Something out of time was created. I would hear the definition of their plot, their story, and I would figure out why it wasn’t working the way they wanted it to. As I, the maker of the movie or the director, heard their definition of the plot, I would discover the flaw in their story which they misunderstood.  Their perception was damaged by someone else’s ideas, not their own (someone else’s map of reality). They actually had within themselves what they needed to discover or perceive about the problem and what they needed to change in order to re-perceive it. They did not realize this and, therefore, felt stuck.

What they needed was an enlargement of their story. In the beginning of this work, I would know what to do but not the why. Later I learned that what I was doing is creating a story that was a parallel metaphor to their own story. The “why” does it work, was interesting to me. The art we have done has helped me understand the why. Because the art contained archetypal characters, I began creating archetypal stories stimulated by the art. I have always had an imagination that is in touch with archetypal characters.

As the director of the psychodrama, I would listen to their story. Then I asked myself “Why is the story a problem? What is missing? I realized that they misunderstand the story they had created in their life.

The traditional psychologist looks at a person’s history in order to re-understand it. The way I would work, called their history to the surface to create fictional outcomes. This approach plays at the unconscious level. Ego is out of the way. Defensiveness, etc, is out of the way. Moments of creativity occur based upon some evolution of a story, a metaphoric re-perceiving of the story.

So many purposely misunderstand themselves (denial). The metaphor helps them to get by the little guard at the gate that keeps them misunderstanding themselves.

Later, after retiring from the role of Therapist, I wanted to try something new, to discover new ways of exploring my creativity while drawing upon my background as a psycho-dramatist. My co-creative partner and I wanted to see the effect of using archetypal characters and stories using a visual medium, an entirely new medium for us. We feel our art images can assist individuals who perceive themselves as a character in the art image, to enlarge their identity and expose different parts of themselves, perhaps hidden parts. Through a process of writing a fictional story or role-playing a character in an art story,  a person may enlarge one’s identity in everyday reality as long as the characters you play are not you in any conscious way. This is the way you get around the little guard at the gate reminding you of the feared dangers ahead. The pain of stepping out of denial and actually feeling and becoming conscious of what is beneath the surface. When you have your story go far away from your own reality, you are freer to  invent alternative options for yourself.

 

Self Discovery Through Creative Writing

By Donna Sellersimage of Bob and Donna when they were younger.We are excited about beginning this blog and creating an interaction about self-discovery and creative writing. Feel free to share whatever your story or impression may be about either our art or any of the characters or chapters in An Absence of Normal. Please share your story with us.

Stories can evolve and change from day to day. You may create a story by writing from the viewpoint of different characters, animals or elements in an art scene, or by pretending you are one or more of the characters in Bob’s novel. Donna wrote an example of an epilogue for An Absence Of Normal, pretending to be the character, Dayly Love.

We will update this blog on a regular basis. We look forward to your comments and will respond whenever appropriate.

The Power of Story

Running On Moonstone Beach  by Donna Sellers

To share stories with Bob, this alone is a great reason to keep making art. I love the different stories we share after we complete a painting. The insights I gain about myself are exciting and I enjoy making up stories that play with psychological meanings within myself. Bob’s gift of deepening the story which can lead to major shifts in one’s thinking,  is truly amazing.  Bob’s imagination has been finely tuned to the archetypes and psychology of change and growth. I am glad to have come upon an avenue to deepen our life and to have such fun through story after story.

So many thoughts and feelings come through me when I travel in my imagination. They all seem important at the time, but I trust that anything important will come up again at a later time. When I imagine a story, I have no trouble remembering.

I just keep coming back to the power of story and wanting to write. That is the most common theme. Then I complete a painting that I love, Moonstone Beach, and I am in in awe about what we can do and how rewarding the whole process is. The mix of colors that I love, along with the story and the backdrop of the infinite seascape near where we live, elicits strong feelings in me. All parts of making Moonstone Beach represents the best of my creative worlds.

Running On Moonstone Beach by Donna Sellers

Mary was given a mare for Christmas who she named “Liberty.” She decided on this name as she saw how upset the mare seemed to be when she was locked up in the corral. Mary spent many hours trying to reconcile how to give Liberty space to run and yet, at the same time, protect her and take the care needed to slowly get her used to the conditions of her new home.

At last Mary came up with a plan. Each day she would open the gate and allow Liberty to run down the path to the beach, the wind blowing in her mane and the sand kicking up under her hooves. Liberty was so fast that Mary had to gallop to keep up with her. She didn’t worry though because Liberty would always slow down when she came to the Little River as though this barrier reminded her that she could not run forever. Sensing that there would be another opportunity to run free, as this had become a routine, Liberty was satisfied to allow Mary to catch up with her and guide her back into the corral for a treat of two red apples.

Interpretation:

I realize the story represents two parts of myself. I trust that I can let myself go on an adventure, as I know I can count on the other part of me to be alert and come up with a plan to create any necessary balance. The woman galloping on her horse loves to let her mare run and has learned to manage her needs as well as the needs of the wilder side represented by the horse who wants to run free of any constraints or rules.